This is a modern-day tragedy. A young man was an incredible talent and promise, to reach unimaginable success already in his life. A glorious future predictions, but also the lives of a series of more and more strange behavior and events, culminating in early death. Michael Jackson called "The Prince of Pop", but he should be known as the tragic hero of our time.
Who was it really? Michael Jackson was, paradoxically, both the most public and the most intimate form of the past half-century; a man who everyone in the world knows, but few, if any, really know. He ferociously guarded private life; sometimes go to the extreme, even bizarre lengths to hide her and the children "look. He was there and was not there, and now he's really gone.
tragic story began over 50 years ago. Many according to accounts, he was severely beaten and humiliated as a child that mocked his father about the size of his nose and his skin color. a very young age, he and his brothers became world-famous, but he stood out as the star. Fame is never completely positive things for young people: it repels false public persona onto an undeveloped personality and confuses the youth that's true identity
the combination of early childhood trauma and very early fame relatives nitro plus glycerol.. very explosive MJ never had a chance to discover who it was, as a normal young man would be he was a teenager Heartthrob;. a Musical Sensation, the Shining Star are personal Top invested considerable abuse is like a magnificent castle perched on a fragile foundation.. It is imperative that all should come crashing down.
There were early signs that things were not right. He did not date like a normal boy, but it was difficult to determine the conditions of other famous people. Some were much younger and some much older. Most people may say, "This partnership suits them," or "It's bad for them every partner," but MJ has no partner seemed to suit him. In fact, he was so confused sexuality as the companion of his choice.
Then there was the plastic surgery. After the first images captured nasal surgery showed a good-looking young man, but the second one left who are a little too good. Until this time, it seemed like a regular, if thin, young man, but after the second surgery became more androgynous-looking.
Several surgeries later became apparent that there was a serious problem. His face was mutilated. According to some reports, the tip of her nose had been destroyed by too much action, and had to wear a prosthesis. It was almost a relief when he came out of the mask is often worn.
His eyes were officially. It appeared from the bumps too prominent brow; heavy-brimmed black eye liner and unnaturally long eyelashes. He reached for a bright red feminine lips and pulled like one of those middle-aged woman, who was too much of a bad face-lift. This handsome young man turned to someone frighteningly distorted.
Most disturbing was the color of his skin. Growing up, he was the typical features of an attractive African-American man. As the years passed, however, he turned pale and had lost all evidence of his African descent. There was a cruel joke referring to travels that he started out as a black man and a white woman turned around. No one would ever know him to be visually connected with the young Michael Jackson the man later.
Well already to the point where he became a grotesque, his face still continued to change. Maybe she was having work done in vain attempt to repair the damage caused by previous surgery, or maybe it was a condition known as "Body dysmorphic disorder ', where someone falsely believes that one or more parts of the body is unacceptable and must be changed. One of the next public appearance was different, changed. No one knew what to expect. His face is a work in progress, not to be completed, and it was perhaps the best metaphor for the identity.
Despite the ever-changing face it was instantly recognizable. The lanky frame, military-inspired jackets and slim trousers. The pilot glasses and long hair. At one point, the single glove. And yet, his identity was so unstable. He is involved in a number of compulsive behavior. Aside from the ongoing transformation of his appearance, there has been excessive spending, such as eating disorder, more drugs and patterns surrounding his young boys.
accused of many bad acts and acquitted of certain charges he was brought up. In addition to a legal suit in any court of millions of dollars. There's no way to know that it was not guilty of anything other than ill-considered decisions. Whatever the behavior is really involved in, and he's all constraints can be seen as the result of early and continuous childhood trauma.
Some have said that issues of race and he vehemently denied them, claiming that he was proud of his heritage. This was confusing when it approved the three white children. He claimed that he was the elder of two children of their own, but genetics would thus not likely to be practically impossible. He was married briefly twice, and the two women were white as well. This may be a coincidence, but one wonders if he hated his father so much that he tried to erase everything about you that may be similar to this insulting and rejected the father's role model.
Sometimes MJ is not a wonderful thing, such as "We are the World." Sometimes terrible things to her, brandishing a baby over a balcony in front of a group of reporters. Sometimes his inexplicable things such as trying to buy the remains of John Merrick, the "Elephant Man", who suffers from a condition called neurofibromatosis-distorting. It's chilling to think of it wants to have the bones of a man who was seen as the physical mad, and who died tragically young enough.
MJ bought a farm, and called it "Neverland". It seemed obsessed with symbols of eternal childhood. The people in the early and choosing trauma often have difficulty growing up and they see themselves as full-fledged adults. They remain childlike appearance and attitude and naive to operate in the real world. They hold on to their past, hoping to create a happy, loving childhood never had. This was what Michael Jackson did in his petting zoo and carousel? Is this why, like Peter Pan, surrounded himself with his own "lost boys?"
Most recently, it seemed to have stabilized somewhat. He let his children be seen in public without masks and shields. Already comfortable in his role as a doting father and legal troubles were behind him. He is embarking on a major concert series and diligently try to show. His death came as a huge shock to many people, but perhaps not for everyone. After all, it was still a fabulous castle precariously teetering on a weak foundation.
recently discovered that MJ was a serious sleep disorder that she has to sleep under general anesthesia. The doctor, who was outside the proper management of anesthesia in a hospital setting much response.
seems to be the temptation to behave unethically excessive plastic surgeons, family physicians and other health care professionals involved MJ. They put the desire for personal gain, be it money, power and access, in front of the star, what was good for him. Maybe it was that way in fear of his greatness that simply was not possible to reject the wrong and dangerous requests, even if they should
had a number of dysfunctional symbiosis of people who are supposedly looking after him, but who instead were exploiting him or pandering. Paradoxically, the fact that he had so much money and power as he has made it possible for anyone to be around him, to allow the self-destructive behavior.
might be like so many survivors of childhood abuse who struggle deep ambivalence and denial of their past, MJ refused the help that was offered to him. Unlike most people, however, who he was able to thoroughly insulate itself exactly those individuals who may insist he is distancing itself from the toxic conditions in his presence, and getting a real help for the problems.
We may never know why the wonderful, terrible and inexplicable things he did, and here is the greatest tragedy. It is clear that many people loved him, but it seems that nobody has been able to handle the emotional wounds and help him obtain early treatment of trauma therapy is necessary. If there was not someone in his life who knew the truth about his past, and he had the courage and wisdom of a job; perhaps his life could have been saved.
(C) Marcia Sirota MD
Source by Marcia Sirota